Relationship - Do I need one?

For the past few days, I have been meeting the siao zha bors to run lah, eat lah and gossip lah of course.
Of course, talked about everything that we can possibly talk about, from updates on our lives to gossip on friends' friends who we do not know at all.
Met again on saturday for dim sum and gossip at 3pm. SHIOK!
Then sherkarilla (aka twinkie tey) has to go off to meet her ah boy and family.. so ah bo, csb and me went to eat MEE POK TAR and proceed to club woodlands to continue with our chat.
So talk talk talk, come to topic of blue rose lor.
NGI NGI NGO NGO NGI NGI NGO NGO...
Then ah bo asked a question, "Eh what happened to you ah? It seems that after XX, no men is worth your time."

Actually I also dont know what happened to me.
In early 2007, I can frankly tell you I'm looking for a boyfriend. But now, in 2008, I just want to widen social circle, go out have fun, laughed until die and go home to sleep.
No commitment, no obligation, no worries at all - how shiok is that!
Lazy to go on date - just anyhow cook one excuse lah!
Lazy to pick up calls - just pretend in meeting or left phone at home lor!
Feeling lazy in general - sleep whole day lor!

Sigh...Why can't platonic friendship exist? I'm glad Euuuuuuuuugene and I have a true platonic friendship, so no need to worry about him misunderstood my intention etc etc.
The worst are those guys who shied away from me when things do not work out. Aiyoh... come on... we can still be friends. Other than boy-girl relationship, can still be friends one, you know.
Unless I'm behaving like Mr RXXX lah, then please avoid me like a plague, I will not blame you.

So, now, I'm just looking to enjoy myself, be happy about who and what I have.
Not looking and not needing a relationship at this stage of my life.
I think life is tiring enough without having to worry about being unattached at age 30.
I'm sure I will sing a different tune when I'm like 40 with full blown wrinkles, lamenting why didnt I treasure all the loves I have *chuckles*
Oh well, worry later lor, now I dont want to worry about it yet.

I know a lot of people worry about me not being attached, ranging from family, my sistas (luv u gals), close friends, normal friends to colleagues!! HAHHAHAHAHA
Dont worry about me, I can take care of myself. If I fall, I just have to learn to pick myself up and try again. Though sometimes time are really tough, I just need to learn how to handle challenges. It will be nice to have someone to talk to - I dont deny it - but I just want to do it by myself for now.

But please CONTINUE to intro me more men so I can practice my skills in dating hor! I still want to go out with men to have fun!!

Must be happy and full of smiles everyday! Resolution in 2008!

First note in 2008

yooooooooooooooooooooooo... wah very long never blog long long post already!
Update Update!
Long blog alert lah.

RENOVATION
My office undergo renovations late December, not enough space for staff.
So now I'm seated outside, open concept, how to blog????????????????
Now cant even pang pui with sound okay! HAHAHAHAHAA...

LOVE LOVE LOVE
Hmm... recently attended Phyllis' dad's funeral with CSB.
It makes me realise life so vulnerable, must really treasure the people around us.
After the funeral, I quickly called my dadster in Indo just to chat with him, wah he sounded so happy that I called. Miss him a lot. I feel like crying, just by thinking about it.
Anyway, I also want to use the chance to say I LOVE YOU GALS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! tamade why never hang out for almost 2 weeks already!!! IM NEEDY!!!!!

WEIGHT
I cant seem to shed off my excess weight, still cant fit into my nice black 3/4 pants.
Sianz!
Really need to start running lah. I'm fucking lazy fat ass.

BLUE ROSE DUDE
He very nice and sweet, considerate.
But no sparks leh, I really tried! Go out for movies lah, dinner lah, but I only treat him as one of the dudes lor, I have never miss him before.
So I confirm only treat him as a friend.
I forecast I'm going be a lao virgin for the rest of my life - hope my forecast is as 'lan' as weather forecast.

CRUSH
I think one of my colleagues is having a crush on another colleague.
Not good news at all, because she is undergoing relationship problem with her partner now.
You all know who I'm talking about right?
Yes... "OH NO!!"

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Okay la will blog again soon! Time to do some work!
Ta. *flying kisses**

Friends again

Friends again with Mr B.
hahahaha... he has normalised!

How long does it take for Indonesians to go toilet?

I overheard one of my staff asking this question.
Girl: "How long does it take for Indonesians to go toilet?"
*cold sweat* when you hear such questions from your staff.
Boy: "I dont know, 10 minutes?"
Girl: "Do you think 10 minutes is enough?"

????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????

What kind of question is THAT?????
*roll eyes*

Trip cancelled

Okay trip to BKK cancelled.
Too expensive! Each ticket is S$470.

Dont know should feel happy or sad. haha!

Hi Bangkok! Maybe.....

I may be going bangkok with my family end of Dec07.
Very last minute... AS USUAL... du du du du.....
So I have to do magic to book cheap tickets and accomodation to occupy everyone comfortably.
This is going to be a drama mama trip for sure as there are so many of us going.
I'm announcing the start of this drama mama holiday trip.

DRAMA MAMA HOLIDAY TRIP - targeted premier date 27 Dec 07.

Director:
Nono Margono

Casts:
Naggy dadster - Powerful Nagger, dont try to stop his nags or risk your ears!
Naggy mumster - Silent Killer, try to ignore her nags and she will nag you to death!
Garang + Shopaholic sister - Try to stand between her and a good bargain, she will knock you back to ulu South Africa!
Bo Chap Broster - Only line will be "Anything"
Cutie + Greedy Bryan - The neutralizer of any bad feeling among the casts, a must have!

Supporting Cast:
Broster's girlfriend aka Eutophia girl, Fanni - Errr.. "ca le fare"

This is going to be a challenging trip for Nono coz it's 6D5N. Being the director, Nono has to plan for all the itinerary to make sure everyone is happy.

Watch out for updates on this space!

(pengsan and roll on the floor)

Another wedding

Another friend got married on Sunday (tea) Monday (banquet)!
As usual, I was the jie mei again, yippie......NOT!

TEA CEREMONY - SUNDAY
First of all, the groom and xiong di sooooooo cannot make it, so uncooperative, so not gallant, in a summary, WAH LAO EH.
There were 3 of us as jie mei and got 4 xiong di.
So as usual, we start with suan tien ku la (STKL)
Wah lao, the stupid groom is damn irritating!!!
First, he asked us to explain the meaning behind the STKL, so fair enough we explain di di da da.
Then he pretended to forget and asked us to explain again! What the freak??
He refused to eat the STKL even when the parents inlaw were in the room, watching him lor!
So we argued (and I really mean argue) to the point that I told him in a very stern voice, "This is symbolic and your parents inlaw were watching, are you going to eat, or not."
And you know what he said "Sure, I will eat lah, but you got to explain to me what it means...etc etc" He seriously tried to talk his way out with his INELOQUENCY and irritating trying to act cute, FAINT!
Fucking third time okay! Until my friend's aunt also got pissed off and told him "This is a necessity, you need to eat it, all right?"
Wah lao eh!!!!!!
After that ang pow only gave a total of $28 for 3 of us - fine, who cares about his money, it's only a token anyway - so we let him off at $28.
The drama didnt end there, ask him to sing and dance - WE PROVIDE MUSIC AND LYRICS - he also didnt want to. And start with his annoying "Okay tell me what the significance of doing this, bla bla bla"
What the freaking shit man - and this is only the second item!!
We, the sisters, were quite pissed off lor, it's like not telling you to strip or anything.
Roll eyes thousand times!
Cannot tahan anymore I told him off! THIS IS THE FIRST TIME I GOT PISSED OFF BEING A JIE MEI, YOU TOTALLY PISSED ME OFF. *Glare and roll eyes*
By then, the 3 jie meis totally pissed and no mood so told him to go up.
Before he went in, one of the jie meis told him to state 5 reasons why he wanted to marry my friend:
1. Because I love her.
2. Because she loves me....errr..errr...
3. Because I love her....err..err...
4. Because she loves me.

I think he is a reincarnation of a spoilt recorder.

Anywaysssss, the xiong dis are more fun people, got gossip about the groom with them and hi hi ha ha in the car also lah.

Then we reached the groom's house at 8am.
We waited for bloody 1/1/2 hour for the relatives to come in and conducted the tea ceremony!
Wah lao! I only heard of relatives waiting for the couple right, I have never waited for so long for relatives to turn up one you know.
Poor my friend hot and uncomfortable in her wedding gown.
So what we do during the 1/1/2 hour? Talk cock with xiong dis, drank 4 cups of tea, drank 3 cups of coffee, prick my eyes with my fingers to stop falling asleep, read newspaper.
Of course we have to pretend to still be chirpy and happy, so that my friend wont feel bad about it lah. Aiyoh.... I think she also sian. So we take lots of photos during to kill some time as well =)

After that we went back to her new house, then to her parents' place again.
I was casually chatting with my friend's sis (forgot her name, so im going to call her jie jie) then we gossip about groom's relatives lor. hahahaha....
I told the jie jie that no worries lah, even though groom very ngiao, but he treats her well, very concerned if my friend felt hot.
Then jie jie sniped "He better treats her well!"
Apparently the week before the wedding, he didnt really care much about my friend and this upset my friend lor.
Haizzz... maybe wedding jitters and stress? I also dont know lah.

So I told jie jie, "Well, the couple smiled and laughed a lot, I guess they are really happy!"
Then jie jie retorted " Zho hi what! + glare". At this point, I confirm know her sis really doesnt like the groom.

WEDDING BANQUET - MONDAY
Then comes Monday evening, I was totally sick and down with fever.
Bride totally pretty with her curls and wedding dress - she looked very sweet and happy!
Me doing reception again, while waiting for guests to arrive, drank 2 glasses of water and lots of potato chips!
So after 7 plus, guests started to arrive.
Most of the guests from the groom side arrived first... My friend's guests also si be ku ku jiao one, most of them came so late!!!

Got drama lor,
At about 8 plus, the groom checked with his sister and sister-inlaw, "So how many % of MY guests have arrived? Oh almost all? Can start already lor?"
Si be infuriating!!!!!!!!! He said this without checking with his bride - who was just standing beside him!!
Then his sister said "Oh, our guests have mostly arrived, but hers (the bride) havent"
Wah lao, very tactless right... my friend already so gan cheong! stupid bimbo.

Then ding dong ding dong on whether to start wedding without waiting for bride's guests... ngi ngo ngo... discuss... discuss... I just shut up and play with nails since I'm not fambly)

So jie jie, my heroine for the day, stood up and told the groom tensely, "Why not start at 8.30? It's raining and a weekday, I'm sure some people will be delayed. We should give them some time allowance." (Noni applauded quietly with her toes + glare at the groom + smiled sweetly at the bride)
Groom (MAYBE just remembered the wedding dinner doesnt make up of his guests only): "Oh okay okay, start at 8.30"

At this point, the biological brother (also wedding coordinator), came out and ask the whole bunch of us, "so are we starting soon?" HAHAHAHHAHAA... cant blame him, he was oblivious of the whole situation... Actually his biological brother is the nicest of the lot!! He is the most sporting of the lot and very helpful towards the bride's family. When I was alone waiting for the rest of the guests to come in, he asked the waitress to serve me a bowl of soup too. Wah very considerate!

Sigh.... quite sad I missed the march in and the montague.
I just wish my friend a blissful marriage. Though we were not the closest friends, I hope my friend makes the right choice. I'm sure there are plus points to the groom that makes her want to spend the rest of her life with him.
But I can also understand why jie jie doesnt like him. After all, my friend is very much doted by her family.

Oh well... quite a drama wedding. Wish my friend happiness forever and ever! =)