I'm sure all of you have read this before, but it's so sweet&touching, I got to post it up in moi blog!
A group of professional people posed this question to a group of 4 to 8 year-olds, 'What does love mean?' The answers they got were broader and deeper than anyone could have imagined. See what you think:
When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn't bend over and paint her toenails anymore. So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too. That's love.
> >Rebecca- age 8
Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on shaving cologne and they go out and smell each other.
> >Karl - age 5
Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your French fries without making them give you any of theirs.'
> >Chrissy - age 6
Love is what makes you smile when you're tired
> >Terri - age 4
Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK
> >Danny - age 7
Love is what's in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen.
> >Bobby - age 7 (Wow!)
If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you hate.
> >Nikka - age 6 (we need a few million more Nikka's on this planet)
Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it everyday.
> >Noelle - age 7
Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know each other so well.
> >Tommy - age 6
Love is when Mommy gives Daddy the best piece of chicken.
> >Elaine-age 5
Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day.
> >Mary Ann - age 4
I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones.
> >Lauren - age 4
Love is when Mommy sees Daddy on the toilet and she doesn't think it's gross.
> >Mark - age 6
And the final one...
The winner was a four year old child whose next door neighbor was an elderly gentleman who had recently lost his wife. Upon seeing the man cry, the little boy went into the old gentleman's yard, climbed onto his lap, and just sat there.
When his Mother asked what he had said to the neighbor, the little boy
said, “Nothing, I just helped him cry”
Such a nice message, I also want LOVE!!!
Thursday, May 8, 2008
Monday, April 14, 2008
Once in a while....
Once in a while I will feel depressed over this business really.
Never ending pit hole of problems.
So brace yourself for depressing blog. If you are in depression mode, read some other day.
I wish I dont complain that much, but I will explode soon.
ARRRGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!
The ideal working environment, in my opinion, if everyone does their job well.
But of course, in the reality world, not everyone can meet up to our expectations, that is why there is such a phrase called "the weakest link"
It's very frustating when you run at full speed, but someone is pulling you back because of their inefficiency or whatever fuck? I hate it when people are not doing their job properly.
The worse is they don't know they are pulling you back - pengsan, and you can't sack them. triple sigh.
Oh well, I guess there is no such thing as an ideal working world.
Fortunately, there are some colleagues who are efficient and professional, though they complain a lot. but everyone complains, so no biggie.
So I really understand why Jack Welch sack the bottom 15% performers as they will only drag the company along with them. Totally can understand, Jack. In fact, I think it's good. Too bad, I'm currently lack of staff, otherwise there are some people who should go because this line is not suitable for them.
Recently, I made a decision that render me heartless and cold.
Well, I feel bad about it really, but it's a decision that has to be made, for the best of company.
It is also through this incident that I realise it is so important to get rid of "the weakest link" or otherwise they are mood dampener and a stumbling block.
But sadly, the root of all unhappiness is always money. If we are making enough, I dont think have any problems at all.
Money Money Money
Never ending pit hole of problems.
So brace yourself for depressing blog. If you are in depression mode, read some other day.
I wish I dont complain that much, but I will explode soon.
ARRRGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!
The ideal working environment, in my opinion, if everyone does their job well.
But of course, in the reality world, not everyone can meet up to our expectations, that is why there is such a phrase called "the weakest link"
It's very frustating when you run at full speed, but someone is pulling you back because of their inefficiency or whatever fuck? I hate it when people are not doing their job properly.
The worse is they don't know they are pulling you back - pengsan, and you can't sack them. triple sigh.
Oh well, I guess there is no such thing as an ideal working world.
Fortunately, there are some colleagues who are efficient and professional, though they complain a lot. but everyone complains, so no biggie.
So I really understand why Jack Welch sack the bottom 15% performers as they will only drag the company along with them. Totally can understand, Jack. In fact, I think it's good. Too bad, I'm currently lack of staff, otherwise there are some people who should go because this line is not suitable for them.
Recently, I made a decision that render me heartless and cold.
Well, I feel bad about it really, but it's a decision that has to be made, for the best of company.
It is also through this incident that I realise it is so important to get rid of "the weakest link" or otherwise they are mood dampener and a stumbling block.
But sadly, the root of all unhappiness is always money. If we are making enough, I dont think have any problems at all.
Money Money Money
Tuesday, April 8, 2008
I'm a Kiok Sai Manager
Ok, recently I nominate myself to be Kiok Sai Manager.
Project go wrong, me kiok sai.
Colleague resigned, i kiok sai - si be problematic event i tell you. knn.
si mi cockster went wrong, i kiok sai. nah bei.
if this is not my own company, i fucking resigned already!
plus si beh pek chek today never run again!!!!!!
fuck.
ok enough of my rants.
knocking off..
see u gals on the 10th april. luv luv
Project go wrong, me kiok sai.
Colleague resigned, i kiok sai - si be problematic event i tell you. knn.
si mi cockster went wrong, i kiok sai. nah bei.
if this is not my own company, i fucking resigned already!
plus si beh pek chek today never run again!!!!!!
fuck.
ok enough of my rants.
knocking off..
see u gals on the 10th april. luv luv
Thursday, March 27, 2008
Ring Ring...Ring Ring...
Date: 27 March 2008
Time: 9.34pm
Location: Office
9.34pm: (Hp vibrates...)
Nono: Hallo?
Mystery Caller: Hello.. (starts to laugh)
Nono: Ah Bo ah? Wah Lao!! you still in office ah?
Ah Bo: No me flasher from redhill market hahahahahhaa... You still in office ah?
Nono: YA LOR!!! HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAA WAH LAO EH
Ah Bo: Eh I call you at office??
Nono: OK!!!
5 seconds later....
Nono: Hallo!! Why you still in office?
Ah Bo: You also what, what doing in office? Not scared ah?
Nono: Scared of what?
Ah Bo: Scared of the things you pantang
Nono: Ok shut uppp.. How come you still in office?
Ah Bo: Oh I stay in office to surf net
Nono: Ya ya and me surfing porn
Ah Bo: Eat already not?
Nono: I had a piece of gardenia bread, you le?
Ah Bo: Havent
Nono: Want to go dinner?
Ah Bo: Okay! Pick you up at 10.
Sniff..... Ah Bo, me so glad you called! Though like going to grow fat from eating dinner at 10 lor!
I luv my friends, what am I to do without you all?
Sniff....
Time: 9.34pm
Location: Office
9.34pm: (Hp vibrates...)
Nono: Hallo?
Mystery Caller: Hello.. (starts to laugh)
Nono: Ah Bo ah? Wah Lao!! you still in office ah?
Ah Bo: No me flasher from redhill market hahahahahhaa... You still in office ah?
Nono: YA LOR!!! HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAA WAH LAO EH
Ah Bo: Eh I call you at office??
Nono: OK!!!
5 seconds later....
Nono: Hallo!! Why you still in office?
Ah Bo: You also what, what doing in office? Not scared ah?
Nono: Scared of what?
Ah Bo: Scared of the things you pantang
Nono: Ok shut uppp.. How come you still in office?
Ah Bo: Oh I stay in office to surf net
Nono: Ya ya and me surfing porn
Ah Bo: Eat already not?
Nono: I had a piece of gardenia bread, you le?
Ah Bo: Havent
Nono: Want to go dinner?
Ah Bo: Okay! Pick you up at 10.
Sniff..... Ah Bo, me so glad you called! Though like going to grow fat from eating dinner at 10 lor!
I luv my friends, what am I to do without you all?
Sniff....
Saturday, February 16, 2008
Valentine's Day
This is supposed to be Valentine's Day post but cannot post on time.
Anyway, rather frustated during Valentine's Day due to someone's remark.
Well it all started with some colleagues and I planning for an outing together during Valentine's Day since we are all singles.
Scatterbrain me forgot dad going back on V-Day so I double book myself on that day. So I tua my colleagues in the end since my dad more important.
During lunch time on V-Day, we were talking about what some dudes are doing for their gfs.
Then suddenly this colleague just said:
Colleague: "Eh imagine the three of you really went for the movie... I'm sure you all will have coffee after movie right. Then you will see couples walking around during V-Day with flowers. Wouldnt you be bitching about them??"
NONO: "Huh?"
Colleague: "Then after you all bitch bitch, then you will look at yourselves and wail why no boyfriends"
Maybe I'm sore that he is making fun of us being single, but the joke very funny meh? Is it really funny? or Is it that I'm really sore that I'm single? Are we singles your lunch time joke on V-Day? That is really the last straw that breaks the camel's back, so I retorted:
NONO: "Huh? What makes you think we feel sorry for ourselves that we are single? Really, what makes you think we feel sorry about ourselves that we are single?"
*silence at lunch table*
I have enough.
Why do some people think that singles are pathetic people? There are singles who are happy being singles you know. Why cant the society accept that?
I dont understand why THAT stigma that continues to haunt single WOMEN ONLY even after so many years of intelligence development and cultural evolution in the society.
Should single women really feel sorry for themselves? I dont understand.
I know some of my friends are concerned for their single friends, but please dont look at us with sympathetic eyes. We are not pathetic because we have no boyfriends. Not all of us place relationship as No.1. Thats all. We are single not because no men want us, not because we are dumb asses that attracts no men. We just have different priorities.
I'm not saying that those people with partners are useless. NO.
It's a blessing to be able to find someone to share your joy and sadness with, really. I can frankly tell you that it is a blessing.
The message that I want to drive across is dont look at single ladies with sympathy, we really dont need that, nor do we appreciate that.
If you are really a friend, support and understand why we remain single, and not joining the rest of the 'ignorants' in pitying us for being unattached.
Anyway, rather frustated during Valentine's Day due to someone's remark.
Well it all started with some colleagues and I planning for an outing together during Valentine's Day since we are all singles.
Scatterbrain me forgot dad going back on V-Day so I double book myself on that day. So I tua my colleagues in the end since my dad more important.
During lunch time on V-Day, we were talking about what some dudes are doing for their gfs.
Then suddenly this colleague just said:
Colleague: "Eh imagine the three of you really went for the movie... I'm sure you all will have coffee after movie right. Then you will see couples walking around during V-Day with flowers. Wouldnt you be bitching about them??"
NONO: "Huh?"
Colleague: "Then after you all bitch bitch, then you will look at yourselves and wail why no boyfriends"
Maybe I'm sore that he is making fun of us being single, but the joke very funny meh? Is it really funny? or Is it that I'm really sore that I'm single? Are we singles your lunch time joke on V-Day? That is really the last straw that breaks the camel's back, so I retorted:
NONO: "Huh? What makes you think we feel sorry for ourselves that we are single? Really, what makes you think we feel sorry about ourselves that we are single?"
*silence at lunch table*
I have enough.
Why do some people think that singles are pathetic people? There are singles who are happy being singles you know. Why cant the society accept that?
I dont understand why THAT stigma that continues to haunt single WOMEN ONLY even after so many years of intelligence development and cultural evolution in the society.
Should single women really feel sorry for themselves? I dont understand.
I know some of my friends are concerned for their single friends, but please dont look at us with sympathetic eyes. We are not pathetic because we have no boyfriends. Not all of us place relationship as No.1. Thats all. We are single not because no men want us, not because we are dumb asses that attracts no men. We just have different priorities.
I'm not saying that those people with partners are useless. NO.
It's a blessing to be able to find someone to share your joy and sadness with, really. I can frankly tell you that it is a blessing.
The message that I want to drive across is dont look at single ladies with sympathy, we really dont need that, nor do we appreciate that.
If you are really a friend, support and understand why we remain single, and not joining the rest of the 'ignorants' in pitying us for being unattached.
Monday, January 21, 2008
Relationship - Do I need one?
For the past few days, I have been meeting the siao zha bors to run lah, eat lah and gossip lah of course.
Of course, talked about everything that we can possibly talk about, from updates on our lives to gossip on friends' friends who we do not know at all.
Met again on saturday for dim sum and gossip at 3pm. SHIOK!
Then sherkarilla (aka twinkie tey) has to go off to meet her ah boy and family.. so ah bo, csb and me went to eat MEE POK TAR and proceed to club woodlands to continue with our chat.
So talk talk talk, come to topic of blue rose lor.
NGI NGI NGO NGO NGI NGI NGO NGO...
Then ah bo asked a question, "Eh what happened to you ah? It seems that after XX, no men is worth your time."
Actually I also dont know what happened to me.
In early 2007, I can frankly tell you I'm looking for a boyfriend. But now, in 2008, I just want to widen social circle, go out have fun, laughed until die and go home to sleep.
No commitment, no obligation, no worries at all - how shiok is that!
Lazy to go on date - just anyhow cook one excuse lah!
Lazy to pick up calls - just pretend in meeting or left phone at home lor!
Feeling lazy in general - sleep whole day lor!
Sigh...Why can't platonic friendship exist? I'm glad Euuuuuuuuugene and I have a true platonic friendship, so no need to worry about him misunderstood my intention etc etc.
The worst are those guys who shied away from me when things do not work out. Aiyoh... come on... we can still be friends. Other than boy-girl relationship, can still be friends one, you know.
Unless I'm behaving like Mr RXXX lah, then please avoid me like a plague, I will not blame you.
So, now, I'm just looking to enjoy myself, be happy about who and what I have.
Not looking and not needing a relationship at this stage of my life.
I think life is tiring enough without having to worry about being unattached at age 30.
I'm sure I will sing a different tune when I'm like 40 with full blown wrinkles, lamenting why didnt I treasure all the loves I have *chuckles*
Oh well, worry later lor, now I dont want to worry about it yet.
I know a lot of people worry about me not being attached, ranging from family, my sistas (luv u gals), close friends, normal friends to colleagues!! HAHHAHAHAHA
Dont worry about me, I can take care of myself. If I fall, I just have to learn to pick myself up and try again. Though sometimes time are really tough, I just need to learn how to handle challenges. It will be nice to have someone to talk to - I dont deny it - but I just want to do it by myself for now.
But please CONTINUE to intro me more men so I can practice my skills in dating hor! I still want to go out with men to have fun!!
Must be happy and full of smiles everyday! Resolution in 2008!
Of course, talked about everything that we can possibly talk about, from updates on our lives to gossip on friends' friends who we do not know at all.
Met again on saturday for dim sum and gossip at 3pm. SHIOK!
Then sherkarilla (aka twinkie tey) has to go off to meet her ah boy and family.. so ah bo, csb and me went to eat MEE POK TAR and proceed to club woodlands to continue with our chat.
So talk talk talk, come to topic of blue rose lor.
NGI NGI NGO NGO NGI NGI NGO NGO...
Then ah bo asked a question, "Eh what happened to you ah? It seems that after XX, no men is worth your time."
Actually I also dont know what happened to me.
In early 2007, I can frankly tell you I'm looking for a boyfriend. But now, in 2008, I just want to widen social circle, go out have fun, laughed until die and go home to sleep.
No commitment, no obligation, no worries at all - how shiok is that!
Lazy to go on date - just anyhow cook one excuse lah!
Lazy to pick up calls - just pretend in meeting or left phone at home lor!
Feeling lazy in general - sleep whole day lor!
Sigh...Why can't platonic friendship exist? I'm glad Euuuuuuuuugene and I have a true platonic friendship, so no need to worry about him misunderstood my intention etc etc.
The worst are those guys who shied away from me when things do not work out. Aiyoh... come on... we can still be friends. Other than boy-girl relationship, can still be friends one, you know.
Unless I'm behaving like Mr RXXX lah, then please avoid me like a plague, I will not blame you.
So, now, I'm just looking to enjoy myself, be happy about who and what I have.
Not looking and not needing a relationship at this stage of my life.
I think life is tiring enough without having to worry about being unattached at age 30.
I'm sure I will sing a different tune when I'm like 40 with full blown wrinkles, lamenting why didnt I treasure all the loves I have *chuckles*
Oh well, worry later lor, now I dont want to worry about it yet.
I know a lot of people worry about me not being attached, ranging from family, my sistas (luv u gals), close friends, normal friends to colleagues!! HAHHAHAHAHA
Dont worry about me, I can take care of myself. If I fall, I just have to learn to pick myself up and try again. Though sometimes time are really tough, I just need to learn how to handle challenges. It will be nice to have someone to talk to - I dont deny it - but I just want to do it by myself for now.
But please CONTINUE to intro me more men so I can practice my skills in dating hor! I still want to go out with men to have fun!!
Must be happy and full of smiles everyday! Resolution in 2008!
Sunday, January 13, 2008
First note in 2008
yooooooooooooooooooooooo... wah very long never blog long long post already!
Update Update!
Long blog alert lah.
RENOVATION
My office undergo renovations late December, not enough space for staff.
So now I'm seated outside, open concept, how to blog????????????????
Now cant even pang pui with sound okay! HAHAHAHAHAA...
LOVE LOVE LOVE
Hmm... recently attended Phyllis' dad's funeral with CSB.
It makes me realise life so vulnerable, must really treasure the people around us.
After the funeral, I quickly called my dadster in Indo just to chat with him, wah he sounded so happy that I called. Miss him a lot. I feel like crying, just by thinking about it.
Anyway, I also want to use the chance to say I LOVE YOU GALS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! tamade why never hang out for almost 2 weeks already!!! IM NEEDY!!!!!
WEIGHT
I cant seem to shed off my excess weight, still cant fit into my nice black 3/4 pants.
Sianz!
Really need to start running lah. I'm fucking lazy fat ass.
BLUE ROSE DUDE
He very nice and sweet, considerate.
But no sparks leh, I really tried! Go out for movies lah, dinner lah, but I only treat him as one of the dudes lor, I have never miss him before.
So I confirm only treat him as a friend.
I forecast I'm going be a lao virgin for the rest of my life - hope my forecast is as 'lan' as weather forecast.
CRUSH
I think one of my colleagues is having a crush on another colleague.
Not good news at all, because she is undergoing relationship problem with her partner now.
You all know who I'm talking about right?
Yes... "OH NO!!"
FACEBOOK
I received this email from SMS team in Facebook.
Hi,
Now we have a new way to send free messages!You can earn free message credits by signing up to our sponsored message service. We have found advertisers that will pay for your free messages, in return for receiving adverts. You will receive two message credits for every advertisement you receive, and three message credits just for signing up!
To sign up go to: http://apps.facebook.com/send-sms/?tab=settings&sub=optin
If you are interested in sponsoring text messages, please email us at advertising@fbsms.net
Thanks,The Send SMS Team
This is fucking smart! I will surely sponsor message service if I'm advertisers!
Okay la will blog again soon! Time to do some work!
Ta. *flying kisses**
Update Update!
Long blog alert lah.
RENOVATION
My office undergo renovations late December, not enough space for staff.
So now I'm seated outside, open concept, how to blog????????????????
Now cant even pang pui with sound okay! HAHAHAHAHAA...
LOVE LOVE LOVE
Hmm... recently attended Phyllis' dad's funeral with CSB.
It makes me realise life so vulnerable, must really treasure the people around us.
After the funeral, I quickly called my dadster in Indo just to chat with him, wah he sounded so happy that I called. Miss him a lot. I feel like crying, just by thinking about it.
Anyway, I also want to use the chance to say I LOVE YOU GALS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! tamade why never hang out for almost 2 weeks already!!! IM NEEDY!!!!!
WEIGHT
I cant seem to shed off my excess weight, still cant fit into my nice black 3/4 pants.
Sianz!
Really need to start running lah. I'm fucking lazy fat ass.
BLUE ROSE DUDE
He very nice and sweet, considerate.
But no sparks leh, I really tried! Go out for movies lah, dinner lah, but I only treat him as one of the dudes lor, I have never miss him before.
So I confirm only treat him as a friend.
I forecast I'm going be a lao virgin for the rest of my life - hope my forecast is as 'lan' as weather forecast.
CRUSH
I think one of my colleagues is having a crush on another colleague.
Not good news at all, because she is undergoing relationship problem with her partner now.
You all know who I'm talking about right?
Yes... "OH NO!!"
I received this email from SMS team in Facebook.
Hi,
Now we have a new way to send free messages!You can earn free message credits by signing up to our sponsored message service. We have found advertisers that will pay for your free messages, in return for receiving adverts. You will receive two message credits for every advertisement you receive, and three message credits just for signing up!
To sign up go to: http://apps.facebook.com/send-sms/?tab=settings&sub=optin
If you are interested in sponsoring text messages, please email us at advertising@fbsms.net
Thanks,The Send SMS Team
This is fucking smart! I will surely sponsor message service if I'm advertisers!
Okay la will blog again soon! Time to do some work!
Ta. *flying kisses**
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